Sunday, May 23, 2010

What makes a true holiday?

The food, the people and the feelings I got from the Hanoi trip sums up to be a fantastic holiday. I realised vacations filled with touristy activities and overdose of photos taking are nothing. I used to take holiday trips and did the typical tourist activities. Now, the memories of those destinations just fades away over time, even with plenty of photographs. Ironic. Totally meaningless. Roughing it out might just be the best way to experience a real good holiday.

So, what happened in Hanoi?

Day 0 - Singapore to Hanoi
Arrived Hanoi late because Tigerairways kept delaying the flight. A short guy picked us up at Noi Bai airport. I had difficulties finding the board that wrote my name because he is so petite.A comfortable private car ride to the hotel. Arrived hotel late, at about 11pm. The receptionist was helping another guest to check-in, but he smiled and greeted us and told us to wait for a while -- in spoken English that I could understand, and with a smile that melted my heart. What a great 1st impression of Vietnamese men.

We were welcomed by cockroaches in the room, even though the room looks immaculately clean. The bellboy took a bottle of ordourless baygone to fulminate the cockroaches, but we used so much baygone after the bellboy left that we could have fulminated ourselves.

Day 1 - Hanoi to Halong Bay
Had already booked a day tour with the hotel to Halong Bay prior to arrival. Saw the same cute guy at the hotel recept early in the morning, happy! We were not in time to have our breakfast, but he was thoughtful enough to get the chef to prepare an egg sandwich so we could eat it in the car. It gave me a warm fuzzy feeling because it reminded me of the breakfast that my Mum used to prepare for me when I was younger. And because we didn't had dinner the night before, we were super hungry.

Halong Bay was beautiful. Weather was scorching hot, but the caves we went to felt like a different world. The moment we stepped into it, we felt the natural "air-condition" within the mystical caves. Our local guide spoke pretty well, with strong Caucasian accent. I guessed he memorised his script really well. It was really surprising to see that the waters of Halong Bay so calm and peaceful, hard to imagine that it is actually an open sea, which should be choppy. On the way back, we went to the deck of the boat to look at sunset. I lied down to enjoy the breeze, and fell asleep. The guide only woke us up when we were about to reach the harbour. Best nap ever. Its hard to put that feeling into words. But falling asleep on the deck of the boat felt surreal.

Finally reached hotel after a long 3hours ride. We were so tired from being constantly on the road. Hungry, felt like we were deprived of food from this trip. Went out to get dinner, and the incident happened. I was pickpocketed and lost my camera. Devastated. I thought it was the worst thing that could ever happened when you are on a holiday. All Halong Bay pictures gone -- just like that. Can't make any police report because its already late. Could only wait till I return to Hanoi.

Day 2 - Hanoi to Mai Chau
Still shocked from the incident, but I had to put on a happy front and moved on. Again another long bus ride. But the bus stalled on entering highway. I asked myself, is this trip meant to be that adventurous? Luckily, the driver manage to kick start the engine again. However, he was a blur driver and took on a wrong route midway. Doesn't help too when the bus is crawling at 60km/hr. When we reached 3/4 of the journey, another mini bus came and took me and ling out of the bus, claiming that the other bus was overloaded. Well, it was for the better because the new bus was much faster. Enroute, we saw lots of cows roaming the streets and grassland. Interesting sight, beautiful mountains. Many a times, I kept imagining the bus went over the edge of the cliffs.

The 2 days we spend at Mai Chau Lodge, we experienced blackouts, enjoyed the sauna and the pool, went to the paddy fields, to the village home, to the morning market, borrowed 2 mountainbikes from the hotel and went around on our own. It was a right decision not to go on the tours organised by the hotel. We saw much more and had more fun just venturing out on our own. The bike ride was super adventurous as we almost couldn't got back to the hotel because we lost our way. With the hot sun, we were really sweating like mad. Although I was still feeling sore over the lost camera, the beautiful scenery make up for it. I witnessed how simple life could be. And I saw how farmville works in real life. Every grain of rice is so precious. I imagined myself retiring in a laid back countryside like this, not giving a heck on whats happening around the world, the fights, the rush hour. I want a simple life.






Cows crossing the road
 






Mai Chau Lodge sits in the middle of nature






 Breathtaking scenery






 A cloud that hung low




Day 3 - Mai Chau to Hanoi
Finally reached Hanoi and went back to the same hotel. Loi took me to the police station to help me get a report. He promised to help before I went Mai Chau, and he kept to his promise. The policemen looked like mafia as they sat around, smoking and drinking tea. But patient man Loi helped me as a translator. The whole process was like a dream as I was in a daze. When it was over, we were hungry because it was late and we didn't had dinner. Loi brought us to a local Zhe Char stall and we had our first real Pho Ga and Pho No. Clear soup with no MSG and generous amount of vegetables. Yummy.
Went back hotel to rest and chatted with Loi. From his stories, we understand the culture and the lifestyles of the Vietnamese better. A friendship started just like that.

Day 4 - Temple of Literature, the good 'ol wet market, Hoan Kiem Lake and shopping
Nothing fantastic. Honestly, all touristy places looked the same to me. Weather was extremely hot. We walked around randomly and chanced upon a market. Bought most of our Vietnam coffee from 1 auntie who was extremely nice. No English, merely lots of smiles, hand gestures and body language to communicate what we want to buy. 2 bagful of stuffs. Hot and tired. Went back hotel to put down the things.

Hoan Kiem Lake is like a breathe of fresh mint. The wind, the lake, coffee by the lakeside, and the sharing of gossips. Thats when I found out that I have a trustworthy face, because people feel safe to tell me their secrets.

Shopping at old quarters area. Bought a tie for Loi to thank him for his help. Most delicious Pho Ga ever and the best strawberry juice ever. The best meal of this trip, simple and delicious.







At a cafe beside Hoan Kiem Lake









 Ice cream poached in black coffee




Day 5 - Random walking, Hanoi to Singapore
Supposed to head to Ho Chi Minh museum and Mausoleum but the Q was terribly long. Asked taxi driver to bring us to the Museum of Prisoners but taxi driver didn't understand English. In the end took us on a ride for nothing. 100,000 vnd for 1 trip. Map was utterly useless in Hanoi cos the streets were messy. They had many small lanes which were not shown on the map. Aimless walking brought us back to old quarters area, amazing.
Since it was the last day, we decided to stay put in the hotel for the rest of the afternoon. The long chat with Loi and his sister. Took group photos and said good bye.
Good bye to the heartwarming people at Asia Palace hotel 1. Goodbye to the hectic traffic. Goodbye to beautiful scenery.

And hello to concrete Singapore. Back to reality.







Loi, the one who help us alot, the one whom we feel really connected to.






The day shift employees, warm people!









The cute one!









He likes me, look at how happy he was.

Thursday, May 13, 2010

Finally going for holiday! But...

I am so worn out by the tonnes of workload. The trip is tomorrow, but I have to work for the first half of day before rushing home to get my luggage for the evening flight.
What a rush....

I can't imagine.... if I didn't get this short break from my studies, how packed my schedule would be... and how I would cope?
Seriously, how to get out of this rut? Fatigue....

Friday, April 23, 2010

Responsibilities

Isn't it a long word to spell? And its quite a mouthful word to pronounce with 6 syllabus. Responsibilities is indeed a heavy word. When I see "leadership", I see "responsibilities".

I wonder what pushes me to take up leadership roles?
In Soka, I took up the leadership role to strengthen my faith. It has been a few years, but I haven't seen myself growing and developing well in this role. Rather, it has become a chore for me. Because I am being responsible, I took it upon myself even though I am not that willing. And now it has become a chore.

At work, more responsibilities could be a double-edge sword. If I do well, it would increase the chances of promotion. But if it becomes so overwhelming that I am not able to cope, then it is pointless. If I am expected to lead, then I have to take on more responsibilities. And I have to produce results.

In school, the responsibility to do well and get good grades is something that I must do. I didn't study hard enough when I was younger. Now that I am older and trying to catch up with peers, it gets really tiring. Eversince I started my part-time studies, my health suffered. Lack of sleep, lack of social life, and lack of money. The cost of education really emptied out my savings, and put me in debts.

In the family, I get the most responsibilities by virtue of being the eldest child. I get the most of everything. Most scoldings, most freedom, most of the talented genes, most respect. But all these meant the family is most reliant on me. Sometimes I wonder, if I were to die suddenly, will they cope well?

I am not one who enjoys being a leader, yet in every aspect of my life, I have to be a leader.
TM has been a wonderful chapter of my life. But do I have that ability and capacity to take on more responsibilities? I have my reserves about it.

Wednesday, April 21, 2010

How to train a dragon?

This is the 1st movie I watched for year 2010, and hopefully more to come. Yes, I am sooo busy that I have no time for entertainment since the new year started.

Anyway, this movie was a great start and it is definitely worthy as a movie to re-watch or to buy the DVD for collection.

The movie is not just about how to train a Dragon, it also convey meaningful messages through the story. In the story, the main character Hiccup found out that Dragons don't behave like how the Vikings thought it to be. Dragons could be tamed, only if the person handling it does so with peace. But because every Viking was determined to kill the dragons whenever they saw one, the dragons became defensive and started to attack as well. Much like parenting, how children turn out to be, is actually a mirror reflection of the parents. I once witnessed a friend who was yelling at her son to stop screaming around the house, because the son was easily agitated and likes to shout when he is not happy. When I look at the way my friend shouts at her son, I realised the son was just a mirror reflection of herself. The son behaves exactly like how my friend did -- shouting.

In the movie, Stoik did not know how to communicate with his son, Hiccup. It was always one-sided as the father always thought that he was right and refused to listen to his son.Their relationship improved, but it only happened after a near-death experience for his son. And in real life, we often take people around us for granted, until something really bad happens before we start to appreciate them.

There are many interesting messages behind this movie, if you are able to interpret it. This is not just a simple cartoon. It is more than that.

Thursday, April 15, 2010

Exams are over, huuu huuu!!!

Time to reward myself, time to take good care of myself. I've been neglecting myself too much and am in a desperate state to make good the damages.
Health and fitness, socialising, doing the things I like, continuing with the Korean language course that has been put on hiatus, reading books (not textbooks for now). All in all, I will have a whale of a time by packing up the calendar.

Bye Bye boring me.

Friday, April 9, 2010

Is it efficient to do overtime?

The March mayhem was just over, but April doesn't seem any better, despite the fact that it ought to be a slow month. I am given more responsibilities now, I wonder if it has anything to do with the not-too-bad appraisal. If it does, I sure hope the remuneration will be adjusted soon. Keeping my fingers crossed.

Back to the question, is it efficient to do overtime? No, not at all. My brain functions slower after a full 8 hours of non-stop working. Not to mention, I still have to find time for some revision after I got home. If eating large amounts of food over extended period will extend the size of stomach, I sure hope it does the same to my brain. I fed it with so much information everyday.

Gotta do something before OT becomes normalcy.  

Thursday, April 8, 2010

Can't wait for my much deserved break

I just cleared one paper today. Relieved. One more paper next week and I can finally relax.
There's not much of interesting happenings in my life right not. Its all about work and school, peppered with occasional toastmaster and soka commitments. No time for movies, no time for friends, no time for yoga.

Whatever is going to happen to me? I am so boring.

KL, Hanoi, Phuket -- I just need a break and recharge, prepare myself for the next level of challenge in 2010.